“You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.”” – 2 Corinthians 9:7 NLT

You need to be aware of your own heart when you are giving. If you are bitter or upset or whatever when giving, these are issues. Check your heart if your are giving for bad intent and true your best to give out of good intent and for good reason or don’t give at all.