“It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart and, whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God’s grace with me.” Philippians‬ ‭1‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Notice how when Paul is in a less than desirable situation of being in prison or in any other situation, his focus isn’t on the situation he is in insomuch as on doing right by God and doing right by the people God has placed in his life. Don’t be so weighed down by the difficulties of life that loving others becomes an issue. Give those things to God and be able to appreciate, be thankful for, and love those around you and share in God’s blessings with them.