“I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord.” – Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭2‬ ‭NIV

Paul shows here even if not directly speaking into the issue and picking sides, that saying pretty much “Please figure it out because you guys should be of the same mind in Christ” is an appropriate response to people fighting. This makes me wonder how effective just saying “Figure it out because this isn’t how Christians should act” would work in situations.